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Originally Posted by grimlock
0.What is the sound of an empty auditorium?
>>>Of peace, try it. Sit in an empty auditorium, close your eyes, empty your thoughts and open your mind and take a deep breath and be one with who and what you are. If you get scared it's ok.
1. How do you reconcile being a 'player' and finding the one, or do you believe in such?
>>>If you get the chance read the book "The Game" this is the crux of the riddle. Is a video game as much fun when won using a cheat code as when won via hard work? I don't know. Just because you have the cheat code doesn't mean you will have an easy path to enlightenment. That said you have to understand knowledge is a means to an end and not a mean in itself. That is to say know what you want and who you are and what makes you happy. It's not easy. I suggest this to all my friends. Write a list of no more than 10 key personality characteristics you seek to find in a life partner. Key issues such as education, employment, life views and utilize what you learn from me and others to find that person who is your life partner and lover.
2. Honestly how many girls have you screwed?
>>>Getting laid is easy. Be at the right place at the right time with the right smell and the right push and getting laid isn't that hard. Remember women enjoy sex as much we men do. They just want a good lay as you do. They just want a guy who won't speak behind her back.
3. What were you doing on a blind date with a fat 33yr old?
>>>Never say no to a blind date. If nothing you make a good friend and you spend an evening away from your home. Just be a gentlemen listen attentively and don't lead her on.
4. Is it wrong to shoot for 90% success rate rather than 90% failure rate? I don't think I have time to get rejected 90% of the time, I would have to be hitting on 9-10s most of my waking time.
>>>OK let's assume half the women you will ever meet are either married or dating someone. So from 100% you are down to 50% half of what is left is having a bad day or on a rebound. You are left with 25%. Some are just not feeling well and let's be honest, you are not every woman's type just as not every woman is your type. Be happy with 10% of all the women on earth. And the other 90% are your friends.
5. Is it wrong to seek sexual fulfillment online as a better use of time, rather than spend hours chasing girls for a few seconds of glory?
>>>I'm on POF and OKcupid. Tools just tools to help you do some recon. But be careful don't be discouraged by women who do not respond to your advances online and don't be upset if all the women want to do is chat chat text text text. Many women are so messed up that all they ever want is a pocket book boyfriend. I've known many very smart well to do women who would flash photos of a guy claiming he was her boyfriend when in reality he was nothing more than some random friend or relative. And why would a woman do this? Simply put they are in love with the fantasy of the guy rather than the guy. It's like you wanting a F40. Yeah it's a fantasy and gorgeous and perfect...but would you want to live with it everyday?
But that said be very blunt with what you put on these profile, I am this that and the other thing this is what I want and this is what I'll accept. As much as women bitch about it if you have a good photo of yourself shirtless doing something other than hanging out in the bathroom post it. I have one where I'm vacuum cleaning and thought it was the perfect level of porn for the ladies. A well educated, well to do, well built man shirtless with a high end vacuum cleaner doing what turns every girl on...cleaning his house. It works.
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Ok off to a meeting. I'm more than happy to help you guys out. Again please don't confuse this advice for being a cockey misogynistic bastard. Rather take this advice and be sure of who you are. But above all be respectful not only to others but to yourself.