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Originally Posted by Sara
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Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan
So I have to ask…..
…Do you want a guy to see a future with you or not? I ask sincerely because when they see you as a toy for the moment, that's an issue…….but when they try to usher in some relationship longevity, that seems to be an issue too.
Maybe it would be more prudent to not date or involve yourself with anybody at all until you do some sincere soul searching so you aren't wasting their time and yours.
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Down the road, I'd like to think so, yes.
Right now? I don't know. We both met up with zero expectations and I make that crystal clear. We both had THE BEST first date, which caught me by surprise and the realistic person in me keeps reminding myself that this isn't going to work out long term and I should nip it in the bud right now. Which is really hard to do when I have a great time every time I see him. |
So all of the "
horse over heartbreak" is just nonsense fodder then?!?
I mean….you continue to set yourself up for the same outcome, so maybe…..secretly……subconsciously…..you just enjoy tumult, uncertainty and a certain level of instability. If you don't
enjoy it, you most certainly
welcome it.