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      08-03-2021, 05:57 PM   #10186
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Originally Posted by Tambohamilton View Post
Aside from the fact he's your son and living under your roof (which are obviously massive!), why are you so concerned? I mean, he's 22 and needs to make his own mistakes I think.

I'm sure your concerns are real, but....well I can't think of a nicer way to say it: back off. Catch him when he falls and advise when it fits, but other than that let him get on with it.

All IMO, of course. Wishing your family all the best.
He gets the same treatment I got at this point in life: he's still in college and without children, so he can live under my roof.

When I got the news, I walked into his room, slapped him on the shoulder, and said "IF you need someone to talk about this, you know where I am"

I'm simply airing my OWN pain at the loss of a relationship.


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