[Bunnny]

I feel like Im the one-off here, but my advice is that it just maybe takes time. My husband when I met him worked out of town all week, and was only home weekends. He would also leave to work in the field, where ever that ended up being but usually on the other side of the country. It was a little different, but you just kinda get over it if you enjoy their company. Then he started a new job that brought him home last November 24/7. Its been great! I still have my own routine through the day, he works in his office, and we meet during his breaks or when he's done to go walk the dog together. We've been together only 4 years, but theres no dull to the honeymoon vibe. He likes cars too so its great.
I should mention, separate hobbies still help for personal time. I've seen my parents go through alot in their 52 years together. And I think that love, time, and hobbies save a relationship. Especially when the kids leave or a major change happens.