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      05-27-2012, 12:55 AM   #1
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odd date advice

Gents. I had what I though was an excellent date wednesday night that has now gone south. I wanted your inout please.

About Me: 37 single, decent looking seccesful guy that is a gentlemen to those around me. With women I treat them well until they screw up. If I smell that they are looking for soe kind of guy with "thug" appeal I know right away it's not a match.

This girl(31) and I had much in common. The date was over dinner at a nice Italian place with a nice bottle of pinot noir(180.00 with tip) I only bring up the amount to better flesh out I do my best to take them someplace nice.

Dinner is great, witty conversation, banter, a few hints on her part on what to do on a 2nd date etc. Positive signs we will see each other again. 3 hour dinner, nonstop conversation.

Red Flags:
She mentions she has only been out of her present relationship a few weeks. Red flag for me, it takes me months to want to date again after a breakup. Also photo's on her phone of otherguys she has dated. A few tidbits of info about her that may lend themselves to conclude she may not be as stable emotionaly as she comes off.

I pay valet and she says to what a great night. Great place, great food, great music and of course great company smiling at me. At this point I suggest dinner this weekend. she says sounds great.(wednesday)

Text her late next day about dinner saturday she replies a few hours later saying "sounds wonderful!"(thursday)

Ok so friday I text her I'd be happy to pick her up as my M3 is out of shop ready to drive again. Texts back later "i bet you are glad you have your car back" an evasive answer.

So today I text 4 hrs before date about restaurant choices, 2 hrs before date shes text, "sorry, I don't think we would make it" This coming from a Ron Paul "christian girl" who dated before me a atheist socialist(go figure) I'm a Ron paul guy myself.

I texted her back "ok, take care" I don't beg or ask why anymore I know a women is an iceberg where you only see the tip. Then proceed to delete her number to avoid the sillyness of asking why?

Please help me understand. This hurt my feelings as I though we were a very promising match..
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