in my eyes, we only got married for the show, so our families could participate in the occasion, as far as my wife and I, we couldnt care less about the celebration\oath part, neither of us follow religious BS and we dont enjoy wasting $$$, but our families being old school it just had to happen...so we made it happen on our terms, we ordained a mutual friend and she validated it, none of our $ is going to some farce religious organization.
Did we need or want to be married? nope, but it was a small sacrifice to validate our relationship in the eyes of our families and it made them super happy, so be it :P.
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