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Originally Posted by Joekerr
That's fair. I think you understand the point I'm trying to drive home is "what if what's crushing her is your relationship (lack thereof) and not knowing how to talk about it / work on it" rather than suggesting that talking about it would crush her. If you think it would, don't. You know best. I'm just providing an outside view, with not really any data to go on, so its not an overly worthwhile view to be honest.
That's a good point. I never thought about it that way, but I like the way you see it.
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I'd truly agree with you but unlike her, you know how badly I got hurt in it all. She has no idea I wake up crying after an hour of sleep if I even talk to her (explains why I'm this tired after a month of constant contact). The woman has no idea how her actions and words hurt me.
The best case scenario in this is that she is depressed and her nutrition has to be fixed, i hand her over to professionals and enjoy my life again. The worst case is that I'm right and she is having serious issues and she'll be moving in with me.
I liked my life without her better.