[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Go old school. Get off of the dating site/apps and go out into the real world.

Oh, the horror *gasp*

[JP10]

Not to veer completely off topic, but I'm not a huge steak guy. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy a solid steak. But 99 times out of 100, if I am at a restaurant I will not be ordering steak. As for the rest, at least he speaks his mind lol - if there are issues with that then it is an easy swipe for the onlookers - both parties win haha.

[Tommy-G]

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Oh, the horror *gasp*

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

[Tommy-G]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

Just sayin

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

Just sayin

I'm offended!!!

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

Go old school. Get off of the dating site/apps and go out into the real world.

That's pretty much what happened on Sunday night. I actually when to a bar with a girlfriend. Had real guys approach us and sit at the bar with us (New Orleans is open and you can sit at bars like it was 2019). It then became too much for my girlfriend and I and I texted Mr. Fuckboy, who used a 2016 photo of himself come to "rescue us."

He showed up and I will not be reaching out to him again. Not my cup of tea.

Oh well. I tried. I can't seem to get it right on the apps or let it happen organically.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

Ew no!

It's fine to think that and do that eventually, but you cannot post that! Automatic swipe left, I don't care how gorgeous you are. Just no.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

I'm offended!!!

At least he's pulling her by her hair. If you pull them by their feet they fill up with sand

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by TommyG-inFlaNow

OK, so for the ladies...If he posted this instead

Perfect date:
Swanky restaurant
and after my head between your legs until you cant stand up

Would it change things at all?

My bet would be no, and he would still sound like a sleazebag. If you approach women in a sexual way right off the bat, 90% of the time it's a turn off. They want a respectful, confident guy who will treat them right, including in the bedroom, but not as a first impression.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

My bet would be no, and he would still sound like a sleazebag. If you approach women in a sexual way right off the bat, 90% of the time it's a turn off. They want a respectful, confident guy who will treat them right, including in the bedroom, but not as a first impression.

But as you said, 90% of the time. His target market are the 10% who are not turned off, might be horny, and think - why not - what have I got to lose?

[Sara]

Originally Posted by dinonz

But as you said, 90% of the time. His target market are the 10% who are not turned off, might be horny, and think - why not - what have I got to lose?

Those 10% are not going to be classy winners you bring home to the parents....

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Those 10% are not going to be classy winners you bring home to the parents....

No - but nobody who responds to his ad is. And clearly that's not what he wants anyway.

[swagon]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

I know right? It's a miracle the human race was able to procreate for hundreds of thousands of years without Tinder and a WiFi connection.

crazy how nature do dat.

I used to exactly the below

Originally Posted by Sara504

Had real guys approach us and sit at the bar with us.

a couple years back in bars or clubs, either alone or with me mates. But I'm more introverted than in the past; I've also become sober and resentful of being around drunk people. And it's all just too many loud folks at once. Just can't relax in there.

So dating apps have been a godsend to me. Apart from one catfish, I've never had any bad experiences - always do your due diligence: get the number, get the IG, look through the pics (don't forget the tagged pics!) and just send it.

Also, might be the age group in this thread, but women in their 20s sure are fuckbois. "No hookups" in the bio is just a shit test to weed out horny creeps whom they find unattractive.

3PM - "sure, let's go do a picnic in the park on Saturday!"
11PM - "so cold in my room, the heating's broken..."

sure, lemme get my pipe wrench ready.

[Tommy-G]

I'm just saying, he took the focus off himself and at least made an attempt (hypothetically) to take care of the woman....I know its not what 90% of the woman will want as their initial conversation but for the most part, the end game is all the same.

Companionship and Sex!

[Lady Jane]

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[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara504

... I texted Mr. Fuckboy, who used a 2016 photo of himself come to "rescue us." He showed up and I will not be reaching out to him again. Not my cup of tea.

You caved. I thought you had already written this one off. Why did you do this? Don't cave.

Oh well. I tried. I can't seem to get it right on the apps or let it happen organically.

Patience is a virtue.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Chihuahua

You caved. I thought you had already written this one off. Why did you do this? Don't cave.


Patience is a virtue.

I didn't cave. How did I cave? I didn't know he was a fuckboy until our in person encounter at the bar.

He had gorgeous photos on his profile and was very charming and sweet in text messages. Decided I wanted to meet him and have him scare off all the other guys that flocked us at the bar. Turns out he was way too aggressive for my taste.

[Chihuahua]

Originally Posted by Sara504

I didn't cave. How did I cave? I didn't know he was a fuckboy until our in person encounter at the bar.

He had gorgeous photos on his profile and was very charming and sweet in text messages. Decided I wanted to meet him and have him scare off all the other guys that flocked us at the bar. Turns out he was way too aggressive for my taste.

Maybe I have this person confused with someone else that you had mentioned previously.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Sara504

I didn't cave. How did I cave? I didn't know he was a fuckboy until our in person encounter at the bar.

He had gorgeous photos on his profile and was very charming and sweet in text messages. Decided I wanted to meet him and have him scare off all the other guys that flocked us at the bar. Turns out he was way too aggressive for my taste.

what did fuckboi do that was aggressive?

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

what did fuckboi do that was aggressive?

Curious as well. How was the sweet, good looking guy that was supposed to scare off other guys too aggressive? Am I the only man here laughing at this? You wanted someone to scare off other suitors and he was too aggressive.

Dirty shoe rule. If another mans shoes are dirtier than yours, good rule of thumb is that he can most likely kick your ass. If I pick a fight wearing a brand new pristine pair of air force one's with a guy wearing mud covered work boots, I'm going to the ER soon after.

First, most men who are sweet and good looking aren't going to scare another man. Just facts. You want a man that will scare other men away? Swipe right on some of the rejects that you discuss on here; they will scare other people away. Dr.s, Lawers, men in suits, clean cut guys......typically are not physically equipped to defend themselves unless they have studied how to fight....other men pick up on this instantly. Men who are typically aggressive with women are not aggressive in reality at all.