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Current girlfriend is awesome in so many ways, but something is off somewhere and I can't put my finger on it. I'm not going to toot my own horn and say that I'm funny....I'm f'n hilarious. I haven't had the experiences that I've had with women, because they like guys with no personality. Lately, the laughter has stopped. We laid in bed last night watching TV and in my typical state of mind, I make fun of everything that I see. Nothing but blank stares. I did manage to get her to talk about cleaning her house and work. I guess it's a good think I didn't just stare at her blankly, when talks of work and cleaning commenced. |
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However, it can also have a negative connotation in other areas. It's ok though, it just means that I'll have sore hips the next day. |
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Still going strong with the one from Tampa. Couldn't be happier. I meet the parents next week. She meets mine the week after. Moving right along!!
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I honestly think that is how this gal makes up my “cheating.” Something enters her mind, she is “fine” and that gives her time to go from me taking 30 minutes to get back to her all the way to me banging a coworker or something. I’m over letting sleeping dogs lie, I’m 40 and I dont have time for that shit. |
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And make sure she has no sharp or blunt instruments around. The stare is a real concern!!!
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08-02-2021, 04:27 PM | #10176 | |
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If you ask, and she says 'it's fine' or words to that effect, it's on her. IMO. If she won't tell you what's wrong, she also cannot reasonably expect you to help fix it. As Rudi says, just carry on being you!
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08-02-2021, 05:19 PM | #10178 |
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Problem is then its a blow-up later. Do that once and Im done pretending its just zoning out or a distraction, either talk or leave.
Its always (at least in my case) the stupidest fucking reason on the planet. Like some simple ass miscommunication or something completely nothing. Like the last chick blew up once because I wouldnt "let" her help cooking when she came over. Then you wonder why a dude wont commit, after a fight as stupid as that. |
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08-03-2021, 02:09 PM | #10180 |
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My GF-in-law is gone
I always had a feeling my son would get left behind, I just never imagined he'd be the one to kick her out. They had been living in 2 rooms in our house. Now I'm depressed, and don't know what to say to her parents. My son already has someone else in mind, but I'm not sure I'm ready to dive into another relationship. |
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We heard about this whole change of relationship Friday, and M moved out (almost) yesterday. Also yesterday, my son said "Mom, <insert name I can't even remember> will be a much better daughter-in-law" He had a brief dally (2-3 months) with this one during high school.
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Aside from the fact he's your son and living under your roof (which are obviously massive!), why are you so concerned? I mean, he's 22 and needs to make his own mistakes I think.
I'm sure your concerns are real, but....well I can't think of a nicer way to say it: back off. Catch him when he falls and advise when it fits, but other than that let him get on with it. All IMO, of course. Wishing your family all the best. |
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When I got the news, I walked into his room, slapped him on the shoulder, and said "IF you need someone to talk about this, you know where I am" I'm simply airing my OWN pain at the loss of a relationship. p.s. |
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