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      10-03-2020, 06:01 PM   #7283
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I met the current (new) one through mutual friends and we have communicated on and off for the last 9 months. She is a fitness model with blonde hair down to the middle of her back, green eyes and a wonderfully generous spirit. We have been talking through COVID and decided in August to spend time with each other in September. She came down from Colorado and spent 10 days with me and it was amazing.

She's is 40, which is over 10 years younger than me, but we really clicked in a way that totally shocked me. We hung out with a few of my friends several times in multiple venues and went out on the town a couple of times. It was so calm, relaxed and felt completely natural.

My friends are shocked because I typically become impatient with ridiculous conversations and want to kick them out after a short period of time. I didn't want her to leave. That has NEVER happened before.

She is coming back in about 17 days and staying for 2 weeks. I can't wait!!

I'll keep everyone posted!!
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      10-03-2020, 07:36 PM   #7285
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The man!
Lol!!

Just A man!!

She's really great. We laugh and joke like a couple of teenagers!!
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      10-03-2020, 08:04 PM   #7286
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I met the current (new) one through mutual friends and we have communicated on and off for the last 9 months. She is a fitness model with blonde hair down to the middle of her back, green eyes and a wonderfully generous spirit. We have been talking through COVID and decided in August to spend time with each other in September. She came down from Colorado and spent 10 days with me and it was amazing.

She's is 40, which is over 10 years younger than me, but we really clicked in a way that totally shocked me. We hung out with a few of my friends several times in multiple venues and went out on the town a couple of times. It was so calm, relaxed and felt completely natural.

My friends are shocked because I typically become impatient with ridiculous conversations and want to kick them out after a short period of time. I didn't want her to leave. That has NEVER happened before.

She is coming back in about 17 days and staying for 2 weeks. I can't wait!!

I'll keep everyone posted!!

Bedding 3 the week after your breakup, a bombshell that is 10 years younger, in your 50’s?

DA MAN!!!
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      10-03-2020, 09:15 PM   #7289
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Bedding 3 the week after your breakup, a bombshell that is 10 years younger, in your 50’s?

DA MAN!!!
that was rudi
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      10-03-2020, 11:24 PM   #7290
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Bedding 3 the week after your breakup, a bombshell that is 10 years younger, in your 50’s?

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that was rudi
It was King Rudi with the 3 in one week this time. I did that in January and will never do it again.

Yes...she is more than 10 years younger than me.
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Get a pre-nup
We aren't there...
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Doh!!!
Still, I guess it is just envy.
Glad it is going well with her.
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I met the current (new) one through mutual friends and we have communicated on and off for the last 9 months. She is a fitness model with blonde hair down to the middle of her back, green eyes and a wonderfully generous spirit. We have been talking through COVID and decided in August to spend time with each other in September. She came down from Colorado and spent 10 days with me and it was amazing.

She's is 40, which is over 10 years younger than me, but we really clicked in a way that totally shocked me. We hung out with a few of my friends several times in multiple venues and went out on the town a couple of times. It was so calm, relaxed and felt completely natural.

My friends are shocked because I typically become impatient with ridiculous conversations and want to kick them out after a short period of time. I didn't want her to leave. That has NEVER happened before.

She is coming back in about 17 days and staying for 2 weeks. I can't wait!!

I'll keep everyone posted!!
Hey what happened to the old flame that you were going to try to re-connect with?
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      10-04-2020, 07:16 AM   #7294
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Hey what happened to the old flame that you were going to try to re-connect with?
It just became a chore to find her with everything else I have going on. Simplicity is the word of the day. A bird in the hand...
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Get a pre-nup

lol.

I just drafted a prenup. Told them in May to get the info and 5 days before the wedding I get it (September). Yes, I know. Iffy. But this one was not complex in terms of what happens at divorce. They've got to sign a ratification within 60 days and will see if they want it amended. I represented her. He declined.

If you get one, have both represented and sign it 30 days beforehand please.
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After an extremely stressful weekend. I think I have decided to take a break from females all together. No dating. No sex. I have trust issues and honestly, it's going to be hard to find even remotely close to the ex-girlfriend. I think rather than to further stress my self out over the entire thing, I'm going to focus on working on my house for a while.
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After an extremely stressful weekend. I think I have decided to take a break from females all together. No dating. No sex. I have trust issues and honestly, it's going to be hard to find even remotely close to the ex-girlfriend. I think rather than to further stress my self out over the entire thing, I'm going to focus on working on my house for a while.
Sounds like a break would be for the best, especially since the last relationship was a long one. Besides the house, work on yourself. Now is the time to push the envelope in terms of fitness, use the break-up as a spark. You should be able to get ample amount of sleep now that she is out of the way as well. Just go with the flow, chicks will come. Hope all is well man.
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Sounds like a break would be for the best, especially since the last relationship was a long one. Besides the house, work on yourself. Now is the time to push the envelope in terms of fitness, use the break-up as a spark. You should be able to get ample amount of sleep now that she is out of the way as well. Just go with the flow, chicks will come. Hope all is well man.
You are exactly right! I've been using all this frustration as fuel for the gym. I am starting to get frustrated with myself due to the simple change of my schedule. It's hard to stay focused when I realize I don't have to rush through my day now.
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You are exactly right! I've been using all this frustration as fuel for the gym. I am starting to get frustrated with myself due to the simple change of my schedule. It's hard to stay focused when I realize I don't have to rush through my day now.
Enjoy yourself. Good luck my friend.
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You are exactly right! I've been using all this frustration as fuel for the gym. I am starting to get frustrated with myself due to the simple change of my schedule. It's hard to stay focused when I realize I don't have to rush through my day now.
Dating right now is a shit show anyway. Everyone in my area is still too afraid to meet up due to covid, and many seem to use it as a way to play games, etc. Not worth the hassle right now in my opinion. The pandemic won't last forever, and if you happen to meet someone worthwhile along the way great, but I wouldn't actively try to look for someone online. Most of those people have been alone for months and are simply craving attention.

Do what makes you happy, ignore the rest.
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Get a pre-nup
That is a great way to ruin a relationship right out of the gate. I understand why some people would feel inclined to do it, but I also know many more where just entertaining the idea of a pre-nup would be an immediate end to the relationship.

I know from watching what some of my friends have gone through, I'll definitely need to be 100% triple sure before I get married.
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Dating right now is a shit show anyway. Everyone in my area is still too afraid to meet up due to covid, and many seem to use it as a way to play games, etc. Not worth the hassle right now in my opinion. The pandemic won't last forever, and if you happen to meet someone worthwhile along the way great, but I wouldn't actively try to look for someone online. Most of those people have been alone for months and are simply craving attention.

Do what makes you happy, ignore the rest.
Great advice, thank you. I talked to friend of mine (a female) who is on several dating sites. She showed me the men in this area that are on those dating sites, their profiles and the messages they send. Hard pass. I'm not about to be classified as one of those guys. I suppose the demographic of the guys that use those websites are different in each area, but I feel like I have higher standards than those guys....the one's in this area at least.

I'm honestly still sideways over the whole break up. It's hard for me to walk away from someone I know that cares about me; but there are times that how you feel about someone isn't enough. I have a lot of work to do on myself. I've been complacent for a couple of years now and recognize opportunities in myself that I need to work on. Much of the things that the girlfriend expressed her disdain with, hit home and she isn't wrong. I'm just going to focus on making myself a better person, the gym and get some work done on the house. I'm an artist and a creative type, I have several projects at home I've wanted to complete for years. All this, accompanied with my work load at the moment, will keep me occupied and give me the sense of accomplishment that I need to keep my motivated.

Gotta get my mind back on track financially and work toward.....whatever the hell it is decide to do in the next few years. I may put some money in the home, build up some equity, sell it and completely relocate and start over.
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Great advice, thank you. I talked to friend of mine (a female) who is on several dating sites. She showed me the men in this area that are on those dating sites, their profiles and the messages they send. Hard pass. I'm not about to be classified as one of those guys. I suppose the demographic of the guys that use those websites are different in each area, but I feel like I have higher standards than those guys....the one's in this area at least.

I'm honestly still sideways over the whole break up. It's hard for me to walk away from someone I know that cares about me; but there are times that how you feel about someone isn't enough. I have a lot of work to do on myself. I've been complacent for a couple of years now and recognize opportunities in myself that I need to work on. Much of the things that the girlfriend expressed her disdain with, hit home and she isn't wrong. I'm just going to focus on making myself a better person, the gym and get some work done on the house. I'm an artist and a creative type, I have several projects at home I've wanted to complete for years. All this, accompanied with my work load at the moment, will keep me occupied and give me the sense of accomplishment that I need to keep my motivated.

Gotta get my mind back on track financially and work toward.....whatever the hell it is decide to do in the next few years. I may put some money in the home, build up some equity, sell it and completely relocate and start over.
The problem with the dating site guys is they actually make things more difficult for genuine people like us because women come to expect that behavior as the norm, and automatically put up a wall. Can't say I blame them when you get a constant flow of dick pics and cat calls all day.

The whole thing about walking away from someone who cares... it's tough but if they really cared about you would they treat you the way they did? To me, actions always mean more than words. It's like someone on my team claiming they are a hard worker, yet the work they do reflects the opposite. I don't know your whole situation, but from the bits and pieces I've read it was sudden, and we all know that changes in relationships aren't usually sudden, but progressive (or regressive) over time. If she felt a certain way towards you but did not communicate that to you until it was way too late, and you found out in a hurtful manner, well that is not someone who truly cares about you and your wellbeing.
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